There was a time when I despised my husband. I know, what an awful thing to say, AND it is TRUE! I despised him! He NEVER talked to me! He has ALWAYS been a GOOD MAN a very good man in fact. Handsome, intelligent, dependable...These good qualities did not replace what I needed. What I NEED yet today. COMMUNICATION. It is one of my love languages. The more regularly we meet for our Cup Of Times, the better our relationship is. If your spouse, or children for that matter, are frustrated with you even though you are working overtime to please them, maybe we are working at the wrong things? Remember LOVE gives TIME. TIME is more precious than THINGS. In the height of my frustration with my husband, he was equally frustrated because he was working hard to provide and doing multiple TASKS at home to help out but it didn't move me emotionally. Not one bit. Yes I was appreciative. But honestly none of it really mattered. I NEEDED his attention, not his mind...not his provisions...not his muscles for tasks. Since I was a little girl, I have always known, as long as I had LOVE, I could live in a cardboard box. Things have never been "my thing"-lol. My need as are so many others - is HONEST, DEEP, GENUINE COMMUNICATION. Enhance your relationships today with Cup Of Time.
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