My engineer husband and I had one of our very best Cup Of Times this morning! He is starting a new job, in a different part of town. Having one vehicle, not knowing how the traffic will be nor how our schedules will sync we decided to do Cup Of Time to go. We grabbed our husband/wife set and enjoyed our TIME at a local coffee spot.
Having been a Behavioral Health Nurse for over 15 years and a real people person all my life, I understand that most people talk about what we do not want. I also understand what we speak we attract to ourselves. We speak about what don't want and get more of what we don't want. It is called The Secret in the secular world. I know it be God's Natural Law of Attraction. HE spoke everything into existence and formed us from dust in HIS own image. So what we SPEAK has a power of its own by God's design.
Somehow my husband and I, got on the pattern of talking about ... You guessed it! What we don't want! So today we made a list of things we DO want and focused on those! My top desire was to cook with someone. Some people like to cook for others. Well I prefer to cook with others. And to my surprise, my husband said the same!
Here was me: "Well we never do it. How was I supposed to know you like to?" Here was him: " Ya, we just get so busy all the time, it's just easier for me to have you do it alone."
Who knows how long we would have continued missing moments cooking together? Who knows how long I would have had to stuff feeling bad about not having someone to create delicious meals WITH. Had we not taken the TIME with Cup Of Time would we ever have discovered this true desire?
BUSY is a four letter word and it can be more destructive than any other. Love those around you with Cup Of Time today.
Smiles and God bless! ~lisa